How Interfaith Marriage is Transforming America
Genre: Non-Fiction Religion
Oxford University Press
February 1, 2013
On Sale: February 13, 2013
Featuring:
252 pages
ISBN: 0199873747
EAN: 9780199873746
Kindle: B00BF9N2AU
Hardcover / e-Book
Book Summary
In the last decade, 45% of all marriages in the U.S. were
between people of different faiths. The rapidly growing
number of mixed-faith families has become a source of hope,
encouraging openness and tolerance among religious
communities that historically have been insular and
suspicious of other faiths.
Yet as Naomi Schaefer
Riley demonstrates in 'Til Faith Do Us Part, what
is good for society as a whole often proves difficult for
individual families: interfaith couples, Riley shows, are
less happy than others and certain combinations of religions
are more likely to lead to divorce. Drawing on in-depth
interviews with married and once-married couples, clergy,
counselors, sociologists, and others, Riley shows that many
people enter into interfaith marriages without much
consideration of the fundamental spiritual, doctrinal, and
practical issues that divide them. Couples tend to marry in
their twenties and thirties, a time when religion diminishes
in importance, only to return to faith as they grow older
and raise children, suffer the loss of a parent, or
experience other major life challenges. Riley suggests that
a devotion to diversity as well as to a romantic ideal
blinds many interfaith couples to potential future problems.
Even when they recognize deeply held differences, couples
believe that love conquers all. As a result, they fail to
ask the necessary questions about how they will reconcile
their divergent worldviews-about raising children,
celebrating holidays, interacting with extended families,
and more. An obsession with tolerance at all costs, Riley
argues, has made discussing the problems of interfaith
marriage taboo.
'Til Faith Do Us Part is a
fascinating exploration of the promise and peril of
interfaith marriage today. It will be required reading not
only for interfaith couples or anyone considering interfaith
marriage, but for all those interested in learning more
about this significant, yet understudied phenomenon and the
impact it is having on America.